Who Decides?

Who Decides?

by Pete Berardi

There seems to be a phrase that is very common in regards to behavior, it’s “What’s normal anyway?” These words are heard in conversations that deal with eccentric behavior. Normality seems to be a relative thing. The point of this saying is that there is not a framework or model of normal behavior. In my opinion there is a model and framework of perfection; his name is Jesus. Some will say “Who decides what normal is?” Well I say that Jesus is the one to decide what normal is.

It is the opinion of this author that humans have not only a propensity to sin but a propensity to justify their sins. Sins of sexual immorality, greed, lying, theft, and violence can easily be justified in not only the eyes of the sinner themselves, but observers as well. People will go to great lengths to make it seem that their sin is O.K. and this is all the work of Satan.

Consider this passage in 1Peter 2:21-22 For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps: Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth:

Jesus Christ was a sinless man. The only reason he was able to do this is because he was God. To ask a person to not sin is asking the impossible. However, if we make Jesus our model and our framework for living, we can walk the path of righteousness. When we do stumble, we should not make excuses for our sins and justify them. We should ask Jesus for forgiveness and the strength to deliver us from further temptation.

Jesus is the one that decides what is normal. By attempting to live up to his standards we are being obedient. The Bible states that we should be

• thirsting after righteousness Matthew 5:6
• seeking first the kingdom of God Matthew 6:33
• trusting in him with all our heart Proverbs 3:5
• in all our ways acknowledging him Proverbs 3:6

Sin is a dangerous thing however unfortunately sin is also pleasing to the flesh. When we understand that it is better to fulfill the Spirit rather than fulfill the flesh, sin will not seem as attractive to us. By making Jesus our model and seeking to walk in his ways and be like him, we can be truly free of pain, frustration and obtain true peace, joy and fulfillment.